No, I am not a Licensed Massage Therapist. I do not offer sports, deep tissue, or other bodywork type massages.
I offer a fully-nude massage (both parties), with sensual touch and body contact and full-body stimulation. I use a blend of Effleurage, Lomi Lomi, Reiki, and Tantric techniques.
Because I do outcalls only and do not have a studio, I do not own one. It is always awkward hauling it into hotels and getting strange looks from valet, front desk, and other guests, I found no need for one.
A bed or similar surface draped with a sheet works just as well—if not better—especially when the session becomes more intimate.
Unfortunately, I do not host clients and only do OutCalls for privacy reasons and past bad experiences. I understand this is a limitation for some, but most of my clients who cannot host have booked a hotel room for the session.
No, unfortunately, I will not split the cost of the hotel with you.
Absolutely. I actually prefer extended appointments, as they allow for more of the boyfriend experience that most clients are seeking.
I am a skilled cook (I’ve been cooking and baking since I was 7 years old) and have 20+ years of mixology experience, so if you’re looking for a great date experience, the overnight option would allow me ample time to cook us dinner (with or without your help, up to you) and make us drinks. After dinner we could play a game, sit and chat, or watch a movie as we settle in with each other’s company and get to know each other a bit more intimately before any intimacy begins.
I rarely travel to other cities that are not drivable, and that travel is typically limited to driving to and from appointment.
I am willing to travel up to 2 hours for a regular appointment; travel surcharges apply. Anything from 2-3 hours worth of driving (one way for me) requires an overnight or extended booking to make it worth my time. Anything beyond a 3-hr drive will require an overnight or extended booking and air travel (paid for by you).
Kissing for me, although I enjoy it thoroughly, is not guaranteed… I do have some pre-requisites in order for kissing to happen:
That said, I have several clients who’ve told me they could spend the entire time kissing me, so as long as the guidelines above are followed, there should be no issues.
As a side note, if I discover that our kissing styles are incompatible, please do not take offense if I ask to show you how to kiss in a manner that is more enjoyable for me. I am an intimacy coach and a good teacher, and I guarantee that anything I offer to teach you will only enhance your intimacy with others.
Though I rarely perform it, I thoroughly enjoy receiving oral; that said, if I am in the mood and the chemistry is right, I can get into it. This will also obviously depend on hygiene and the absence of STIs.
However, if you are seeking an experience that is focused on me performing oral on you, I am probably not the right guy for you.
Positionally speaking for sex, I am versatile. Being versatile means that you enjoy both, not one or the other based on your partner’s position; being able to toggle in either direction is what is referred to as a switch. I am NOT a bottom NOR am I a switch.
In this endeavor, I lean more top and excel in that department. I’ve been told by many that the combination of girth, length, head shape, as well as the curve of my dick is: PERFECT. I am very patient and skilled with first-timers.
That said, if the chemistry, connection, and comfort level is right and energy is flowing toward it, I can get into a flip session where we take turns, but me bottoming is definitely not promised nor guaranteed, especially if you’re not bottoming as well.
Bareback.
Because I spent most of my sexual prime in a 14-year, monogamous relationship, one in which we didn’t use condoms, I grew accustomed to bareback. Unfortunately, that spoiled me quite a bit, and I tend to go flaccid with a condom on.
Of course, I still play safe—meaning I don’t take obvious risks (if there are visible signs of STIs or other communicable skin conditions in that area, I forego that intimate act altogether), and I would only engage in that sort of intimacy if I felt comfortable enough with you to do so.
If you do not have sex without a condom and this is a dealbreaker for you, I completely understand.
Unfortunately, I am not into roleplay beyond having the moniker of Daddy—a nickname I have had since I was 16, believe it or not.
I am an Alpha in the bedroom: I take charge and typically lead the situation based on the energy flow; this, however, does not mean that I am a Dom—I command respect by giving it versus demanding respect through orders.
CNC—or consensual non-consent—is an ABSOLUTE avoidance for me, and this comes from my unfortunate past sexual trauma and rape. It is a huge trigger for me, and the experience—regardless of whether it’s acted out or not—still elicits a trauma response.
I am rather vanilla in the kink department, but do not take that to mean that I am boring.
Urolagnia, or water sports, is about the only kink I have, but even with that, I am limited to the enjoyment of watching other men urinate (public urinal play was some of my first sexual experiences), peeing on others, or even letting someone drink from the tap (often followed by head).
I also get into worship (you worshipping me)—especially my feet, which is a completely erogenous zone for me—meaning I am perfectly fine with you taking your time exploring my body from head to toe (aside from my nipples, unless you’re extremely gentle with them). If you are into feet and would want to do a bit of foot worship during our session, please let me know so that I can make sure my feet are freshly pedicured—I maintain them regularly, but I still like a fresh pedicure before footplay.
Some kinks I am frequently asked about—but ABSOLUTELY NOT into—are the following:
I never accept appointments from someone who I feel I am not connecting with already—it’s a waste of everyone’s time.
I make myself available via WhatsApp, SMS, or other services, for us to stay connected and spend some time getting to know each other before the appointment. For this reason, I rarely accept last-minute appointments. Sadly, I’ve also learned that most who want to meet the same day or are in some sort of a rush for an appointment are typically scamming or playing games.
Remember, although I am an empath, I am not a telepath (I can’t read your mind). To ensure that we are determining if there’s a genuine connection, please be honest and upfront in your responses to any questions I ask, and definitely please tell me all your expectations to ensure that I am comfortable meeting said expectations. Withholding information from me serves neither of us.
